gold refining

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The Real G-Spot Technique

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The Real G-Spot Technique

Introduction

Thank you for purchasing The Real G-Spot
program. This technique is absolutely for
real, and I hope you take the warning seriously
that I posted on the website. This technique,
when used to an extreme can cause
hyperventilation and/or high-speed racing of
the heart. I beg you to please be careful using
this program on anyone with heart murmurs,
misc. heart conditions, or asthma, etc. Please
be a responsible adult!
Now we are off and running, and we are about
to change your love life and your sex life
forever. You will now have the power to give
any woman the longest and most intense
orgasm of her life. The name of the game is
oral pleasure, and there is nothing out there
on the same page as this program. Please feel
free to email me to share your ideas and
experiences. I love reading about leg shaking
stories, etc.
I hope you enjoy the program, and may you have
a wonderful and enjoyable sex life.
The Real G-Spot Technique
Step Two
Setting The Mood With Foreplay
Romantic foreplay is an essential part of
giving an intense G-Spot orgasm. Perhaps you
have your own method, but I suggest doing
something that gives a total sense of
relaxation that later leads to excitement.
I first like to set the mood by laying my partner
face down on the bed and gently giving her a
soft fingertip massage. I also like to play
relaxing music by either Enya or Enigma. Real
softly, I use five finger tips in a circular
motion all around the back. I do this for many
minutes, then I start going down the legs in a
straight motion. With the music, I rub my
fingers in a dreamy and very romantic fashion.
Be careful that your partner doesn’t fall
asleep; this is very relaxing.
After fifteen or twenty minutes of total
relaxation, I start moving my hands to more
sensual areas. As my hand goes up the legs, I
will gently brush them by my partner’s vagina
to tease her a little bit. I will do this
continuously until I feel her getting wet and
bothered. When she gets excited enough, I will
turn her over and proceed to the next step,
which is giving oral pleasure.
The Real G-Spot Technique
Step Three
The Oral Pleasure Warm Up
The oral pleasure warm up is your lead in to
giving an intense G-Spot orgasm. After you
given her an amazing and relaxing massage,
you will turn her over and gently spread her
vagina lips apart with your thumbs. You will
keep the lips apart during this entire step.
Make sure not to spread them apart with too
much pressure.
Your next step is to concentrate your tongue
on her clitoris. The clitoris is a small internal
stem that is hidden at the top of the vagina.
(above the vagina opening) Spreading the lips
apart correctly with your thumbs should
expose the clitoris for maximum stimulation.
Most of the time it’s hard to see the clitoris,
but if you simply concentrate your tongue on
the very upper part of the vagina, then you
have no choice but to hit it. On the clitoris, you
are going to softly use the tip of your tongue
in a circular motion. Try to be consistent with
your motion in speed and intensity. Make sure
to do this technique very softly. In the
beginning of this technique, you can insert
your entire tongue into the vagina. Insert the
tongue as deep as possible and move it from
side to side. The purpose of this technique is to
drive her wild with passion. When she is about
75% of the way of having an orgasm, you are
going to take things to the ultimate level,
which is The Real G-Spot technique.
The Real G-Spot Technique
Step Four
Hitting The G-Spot
After you have brought her close to orgasm
with the tip of your tongue, you are going to
initiate the G-Spot technique.
Your first wet two fingers with your mouth
and insert them into her vagina. The G-Spot is
located on the roof of the vagina, so you are
going to aim your two fingers upwards. You
are now going to feel for a small patch of skin
that has a rough texture to it. (can be the size
of a quarter) The spot could be near the
opening of the vagina, or it could be back
towards the belly button. Once you find it, you
are going to stay there until the orgasm is
finished. On some women you can feel a little
bean that will expand with stimulation.
This is hard to put into words, but I am going to
try and tell you exactly what to do. Once you
find the G-Spot, you are going to push in with
your fingers and keep them pushed in the
entire time. You never release the fingers
from the pushed in position. (keep the fingers
indented into the G-Spot at all times) You are
next going to use the fingers in a circular
motion. While you moving the fingers they
never leave the pushed in position. You will
never lift them from the area. You are going
to be a little firm with this technique, but don’t
do it so hard that you cause pain. You might
ask her to tell you if you are doing it too hard.
Please understand that you are going to be
moving the skin in a circular motion with your
two fingers. The success of an intense G-Spot
orgasm is keeping consistent rhythm and
pressure. Simply keep the fingers pressed into
the area, and press down where you are
moving the skin in a circular motion. You start
off with medium intensity, and later on you are
going to add a lot of pressure.
Next, you are going to put your tongue back on
the clitoris, and you are going to do the same
twirling motion with the tip of the tongue on
the clitoris that you did earlier. You can be a
little firmer with the tongue at this time. You
are now going to marry the twirling of the
tongue with the circular motion of your
fingers. They are going to complement each
other. Please note that you are going to keep
things soft and in perfect rhythm until she is
ready to have her orgasm. (twirl your tongue
and your fingers at the exact same speed and
intensity.)
Now you are ready to give her a very intense
and very long G-Spot orgasm. As she gets near
climax, you are going start twirling faster and
faster. As she is starting to cum, you are going
to be a wild man on her clitoris and her G-Spot
at the same time. You are going to rapidly
twirl your tongue and your fingers at the same
speed. The hard part is to keep a consistent
motion while she is moving her hips in the air
from excitement. At this point, don’t be afraid
to be firm with the tongue and the fingers. You
will actually want to move your tongue as
quickly as you can in whatever circular motion
it lets you. You are also going to add a lot of
pressure with the tongue. Your two fingers
are going to be spinning as fast as your
tongue. Don’t be afraid to press in hard and
twirl. Please note, if she has a large vaginal
area, then you might have to hang on hard for
the ride. Sometimes it’s not easy to stay on the
clitoris while she is moving.
I can’t tell you how exciting it is to watch
someone have this intense of an orgasm. You
will definitely build a greater bond with your
partner. After this amazing orgasm, you are
going to immediately give her another orgasm
to cap things off.
The Real G-Spot Technique
Step Five
An Immediate Second Orgasm
The second orgasm will immediately follow
the G-Spot orgasm. Right when you take your
two fingers out, you are going to insert your
penis into the vagina. You are going to be
aiming the penis for the stomach near the
belly button. I usually have a condom already
in place before I hit this step. It is important
that you enter the vagina quickly after her
first orgasm.
First, you are going to push in with your penis
like you did with your fingers on the G-Spot.
Your penis is going to stay indented into this
area, but you are going to go back and forth in
motion. You are going to push in hard, while
not completely going backwards. Again, you
are going to keep the penis in motion without
taking it from the area. You are basically
going to be jabbing the G-Spot. (Like your
fingers during the first orgasm, you are never
going to remove the penis from the indented
area) Very quickly she is going to have a
second orgasm. This orgasm is going to wipe
her our physically. She should melt into your
arms after this one. After she orgasms, you
can go ahead and have your orgasm. Your
partner is so drained at this point that you can
usually choose whatever method of your
orgasm that you wish.
If your partner is capable of having multiple
orgasms, you will immediately find out after
her second orgasm. Simply pick another
sexual position after her second orgasm and
see if she has another orgasm. Not to brag,
but I had a partner have eight orgasms in a row
one night, and she had no idea that she was
multi-orgasmic. Let me repeat instructions
again in case you don’t understand them. Go up
and press in hard with the penis in a jabbing
motion. The penis is always touching the area.
Keep doing this until she has her orgasm.
The Real G-Spot Technique
Step Six
The Cool Down Period
The cool down period or after play is a
relaxing time that is important towards
building a stronger bond with your mate.
Women crave affection, and giving her extra
attention after her orgasm will make her melt
in your arms. I recommend using the five finger
tip massage method all over her chest and
stomach for a while. You can also do this on
her arms. I also like to joke around at this
point about how intense and great the orgasm
was. Mastering the G-Spot orgasm will give
you a lot of power.
On a serious note, I recommend using this
technique if you make your partner
hyperventilate during her orgasm. Of course
you can use the old breath into a paper bag
technique, but I like to use the five finger tip
method all over her chest while speaking a
gently shhhhh. You can also use this method if
her heart is racing too fast. Please be very
very careful with this program, and please
don’t try anything in this program on anyone
with asthma, misc. breathing problems, or
heart conditions. I literally thought my exwife
was going to die one night. Her heart
seemed to go out of rhythm and she got very
scared. I simply used the finger tip massage
method on the chest while speaking a gentle
”shhhhh.”
The Real G-Spot Technique
Step Seven
Creative Additions
I recently added a new technique to my
program. I learned this from a friend who
is using my program. He simply inserts an ice
cube into the vagina while he is doing the GSpot
method. My friend said that it creates an
unusual sensation that drives his girlfriend
crazy. I have another friend that does a
gentler form of my G-Spot method. He likes to
simply tap the G-Spot softly with his two
fingers instead of twirling. He of course
combines this with using his tongue on the
clitoris. Perhaps this gentler method would
best on someone with a heart or breathing
condition?

By
Maitreyanto

Blow Jobs

2007-11-24T22:25:00.000-08:00

Blow Jobs

I recently wrote a story called "How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ." It was a labor of
love. I was thrilled with the feedback I received. I got cheers from men. I got
compliments and thanks from women. I also got several dinner invitations. For the
record, I do like steak, but make me a well-prepared Italian dish and I'm putty in
your hands.
What surprised me most were the comments I got from both men and women
requesting and encouraging me to write a follow up piece about how to give a
blowjob. Women wanted it so they could compare their technique or perhaps learn
something new without having to bother their neighbor's husband. Men wanted it so
they could hand it to their lady and avoid the discomfort of saying, "While you're
down there, honey, I'd like to give you some instructions on how to do it better."
Ouch – I can nearly feel the teeth marks.
Well OK, you know me, I'm more than happy to help. There's nobody that likes to be
on the receiving end of a good BJ more than me. In fact, I bring my cock with me
wherever I go for just such an occurrence.
Writing an article about how to go down on a woman, that was like a fish writing
about how to swim. It's just something I truly love. But writing an article about how
to give head to a man, oh boy. I can see the feedback now. "Hey gay blade, why
don't you stick to pussy and leave blowjobs for the chicks to write about." Or, "Hi,
I'm Johnny from Hoboken. I loved your piece. Call me at 637-9648." My friends,
they'll never let it go.
Well, let me first say that I'm not gay. Although as Jerry Seinfeld put it, "not that
there's anything wrong with that."
If my first article helped a few inexperienced guys please their women, I feel great
about that. And if this piece helps a few more girls feel comfortable and confident
and gives their guy greater satisfaction, I'll take the heat. That's what writing is
about.
Ah, how fondly I remember my first blowjobs. Typically, the eager girl would put her
lips over the head of my cock and frantically rub my shaft until I either came or
developed a friction rash. Then just when I was excited enough to cum from all this
attention, usually about two minutes, she'd pull my cock off her lips, so that she
wouldn't taste any of the nasty sperm that shot out and made lovely patterns on my
clothes. "What's that on my jeans, mom? Glue!"
Only years later did I discover that this was not in fact a blow job, it was being
jerked off with a little tongue action. Sort of what I could do by myself, only a tad
wetter.
What a disappointment. And yet, how could you blame her? It's not something that
was taught in school, nor were the other girls any help – they didn't have anyone to
teach them either. In most households, this was not discussed at the dinner table.
"Sweetheart, pass the salt, and lick my balls a little more tonight will you? How was
school today kids?" So here you had all these marginally satisfied guys running
around wondering what was so great about blowjobs. I was one of them.
With the advent of video tape technology, we got to see a lot more blowjobs than we
ever saw in the basement on the old 8mm projector. And there was sound! Moaning
and groaning. At last, we got to see beautiful women sucking a cock so large that it
belonged in the Jurassic age, using both hands and barely covering half of it, until
the guy finally came a quart all over her face and tits. And you think we felt bad
before? We went to our rooms and cried about how much nature had cheated us,
and startled that a girl could take suck a large cock so far down her throat. No
wonder they moaned.
Now with DVDs, we can see the same thing, only clearer. You haven't lived until
you've seen a blowjob on DVD, watched on a large screen television. It looks like an
episode out of "Don't Try This At Home." A huge face swallowing a python. It was
intimidating to women and humiliating to men.
Now for the good news. You are about to read a do and don't article that will
suggest how a woman can dramatically improve her BJ skills, if indeed they need
improving. Some women out there love to suck a cock s much we love to lick
pussies, and need no improvement at all – none. They live for it. They love the feel,
the taste, the sight. They moan with pleasure when they suck. They slobber all over
you. They rub a cock on their face like it's a wrinkle remover. To those women I say,
"Come to papa!" But in any event, you still may learn just one thing that will improve
your performance, or clarify that you are as good as you thought. If so, it's worth
reading – and you may have some fun. Read it at a party, that ought to spice things
up!
Anatomy-wise, the penis is relatively uncomplicated. There's the head, shaft and
balls. Hasn't changed much since the cave man. But let's get a little more technical.
The entire head of the penis is called the glans. The crown itself, the ridge of flesh
separating the glans and the shaft is called the corona. The meatus is the opening at
the tip of the penis where urine and semen emit. And the frenulum is the underside
of the corona where the circle of the corona comes together, and where the shaft
connects to the corona, that 'V' shape. The scrotum is of course the sac that hangs
below the penis and holds the testes. Under that is the perineum, or 'taint' area,
leading to the anus. If you need photos, there are many, many websites that have
them, if they're even needed. Got all that? They don't teach all this in health class as
a way of improving your blowjobs do they? Hmm…maybe they should.
I wrote this information not to bore you, but because I don't want to describe it over
and over in the rest of the article. As I've said before, I'm not a doctor. Yet, I've
been to the doctor many times, never discussed blowjobs. He did stick his finger up
my ass with a glove on though. And that was in the waiting room. So we made a
deal, I won't practice medicine and he won't write about how to give a blowjob.
Sounds like a better deal for me.
Now, here's the fun part, the do's and don'ts of giving a spectacular blowjob. These
can put you in the BJ Hall of Fame. Where is it located you ask? In my display case
next to the baseball trophies? It will have to remain a secret for now kids, but it's not
in Canton, Ohio.
OK, you're kissing, you're rubbing, you've kissed your way down his neck and chest.
You've lifted his shirt and kissed down his stomach, and you're unbuckling his belt.
What now?
Watch any adult movie and what's the one thing they always do beautifully? They
look into the lucky guy's eyes when they give him head, when it's physically
possible. Why? It shows the connection they have with him. They're not just sucking
a cock, they're sucking his cock, and they want to taste his cock. So start this
practice early. When you're pulling off your fella's pants, begin looking in his eyes.
An approving moan (would a gasp hurt?) or two when his cock springs free lets him
know you're eager to please him and like what you see.
Don't pump his penis like you're milking a cow. Gently (at least at first) rub his cock
with your hands, making it as hard as possible. If you've gotten this far and he's not
as hard as a rock yet, please come see me as soon as possible. Wait – did I write
that? I mean, keep going. And don't just rub the top half of his cock, rub the entire
cock, including in particular the glans and balls. The frenulum is incredibly sensitive
and will send shivers through him – but I'll get back to that aspect. In the meantime,
rub him all over, and don't forget his perineum and even his anus, lightly at this
point. Again, I'll get back to that once the heat is on.
Remember, the shaft of the penis doesn't have a heck of a lot of nerve endings. Its
primary use, BJ wise, it to connect the sensitive head with the sensitive balls. The
head of his cock and balls are where all the action takes place, so don't spend too
much time giving him the shaft. The more time you spend with your tongue and lips
on his head and balls, the better head you'll be giving. Why do you think they call it
head??
Do talk to him. Tell him how much you love him, how much you want him, how
much you want to suck his cock and how good you're going to make him feel. Now, I
know this may be a bit uncomfortable for those uninitiated in the ways of dirty talk
(hmm…another article in the making). But girls, I can't begin to tell you how
arousing it is for us to know how excited you are and how much you enjoy what
you're doing. Books have been written on just this subject. If you feel funny about it,
and there's no reason you should, whether you've known the guy a week or have
been married for 25 years, just start slow.
Perhaps "I've been looking forward to this," or "I can't wait to taste you," would get
the ball rolling. Then simply go with the flow. Sure, if you want to say, "God I love
this cock…I'm going to suck your cock like it's never been sucked before…suck the
cum right out of you…make you feel like you've died and gone to heaven…would you
like that, baby? Would you like me to suck your cock hard and long until you squirt
into my mouth? Because that's what I'd love to do…" I guess that would be all right.
But again, even if it's just an approving moan now and then. Anything is better than
stone silence, where it seems like you're doing a chore.
The wetter the better, so don't skimp on the saliva. In other words, slobber all over
his cock! If nothing else, all the licking it takes to do this is putting him in, let's say,
a good mood. A jewelry good mood? Who knows. Certainly a dinner out good mood.
More important, when you're pumping his lubricated rod with your hand, which is not
such a bad idea, the saliva reduces the friction. So lick up and down his shaft with
maximum drooling. Friction=bad, Wet=good. Comprende?
Do swirl your tongue around the head of his cock. It's the most sensitive area and
responds well to this loving attention. Now here's a little secret that many people
don't know and that I alluded to earlier. The frenulum, that little V shape under his
cock head, is mucho sensitive. If you use your tongue to play with it, you'll be doing
your good deed for the day. Likewise his meatus. Flick your tongue along the tip of
his penis to get this area. The head of his penis is like your clit. Suck on it, swirl your
tongue around it, bob your head up and down with your lips over his head, lick all
the areas I just mentioned and you'll have him gasping for air. Another winner: while
you're sucking and licking his cock head, circle your fingers in an 'OK' motion around
just the base of his cock. Then, clamping tightly, 'jerk him off' in a mini motion of no
more than an inch or so. It won't make him cum, but it's exquisite.
Don't stay in one spot doing just one thing. It becomes monotonous for both of you
and begins to decay the pleasure after a while. When a guy goes down on you
properly, he's kissing and licking all over, not just concentrating on one spot. Same
thing with good head. Suck the top, lick the shaft, lick his balls, keep changing the
pattern. Except when he's just about to cum. When you're got him this deep into the
pleasure zone, and you can tell from his words or his breathing that ejaculation is
close at hand, now is not the time to move away from what you're doing. Just keep it
up until he cums.
Do lick and suck on his balls. Those two babies are his pleasure zones, shooting
sparks inside his head. If you haven't been doing this, you've been unknowingly
denying him a real source of pleasure. Go easy down there, needless to say, it's not
the place to play handball. But licking and sucking on his balls, while your hands
continue to caress his shaft – it just doesn't get much better than that.
Don't overlook his perineum and anus. This requires some explanation. If you think
that a guy who likes his anus played with or even penetrated is gay or would like to
be, you are dead wrong. A man's anus and surrounding areas are rich with nerve
endings. Perhaps, it has been speculated, even more so than a woman's, and nobody
faults her for enjoying anal sex – hell no. When you are licking his balls, if you go
down a little further, licking his perineum which is, I'm testing you here, the 'taint'
area between his balls and anus, you'll be rewarded with lots of moans, groans and
heavy breathing. It just feels amazing.
Now, and here's the dicey part. If you insert a well-lubricated finger, preferably a
pinkie, just a little bit into his anus just as he's about to cum – watch out. He may
cum like a fire hose from you massaging his prostate this way. Now this is not
something I would surprise him with, in case he feels funny about it. But he won't
feel funny if you don't! Tell him you know it feels good and that's what you're trying
to do. Let him know you feel comfortable about it, that there's nothing the two of
you should deny yourselves sexually, and he should be just fine. Which, by the way,
brings me to another point for men only: Guys, please, give the lady some courtesy
– something to be attracted to. If you've had a long, hot day at work, or a great,
sweaty workout at the gym, take a hot shower. Scrub the day's crud off your body
before you ask her to swallow it, OK? Get clean, look good, smell good, and you're
fighting a winning battle. If you want to do her a real favor, take a scissors and trim
off some of the stray hairs around your cock and balls, carefully. I'm not saying
shave the area, although it can be a hell of a lot of fun actually.

By. Maitreyanto

Fellatio Techniques

2007-11-24T22:22:00.000-08:00

Fellatio Techniques

Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. It is a great way to give pleasure; regardless of whether it is for
foreplay, after play, or the main event. Like all other sexual skills, they must be learned, so communication
is highly recommended. Whether the communication is before, during, or after, it is essential to learn the
art. Finding out what he likes will invariably go a long way towards performing mind-blowing oral sex.
Keep in mind, when you are performing oral sex, you are doing this for him. Sending negative vibes about
not wanting to or how much of a chore it is will take away from his experience. If you act enthusiastic,
chances are it will be over faster, and it will be your turn to receive. If you are really against performing
fellatio, explain to your partner why you don’t, and don’t allow him to force you if you are uncomfortable.
Cleanliness is essential with virtually all forms of sexual play; particularly in oral sex where a bad taste or
smell will undoubtedly dampen enthusiasm on the part of the giver. A bath or shower is a great primer, and
can be the start of the festivities. If you are uncomfortable with a particular smell that your partner may
have, suggest taking a shower with you, because you’ve had a busy day and don’t feel clean. You don’t
want to point out the smell (unless it is a very common occurrence and can be prevented), as that will only
lead to anxieties and take away from the overall experience.
Positioning
Finding an agreeable position for fellatio is usually not a difficult task. Both the man receiving fellatio and
the person performing fellatio need to be comfortable. For deep throating, it is wiser to choose a position
where the angle of the penis and the angle of your throat are somewhat aligned. For a better look at
positions for oral sex, have a look in our sexual position section.
The Basics
Too often oral sex is initiated by sucking on the penis. To achieve a more powerful orgasm, it is better
practice to start with some teasing. With the exception of a quickie, fellatio should be started with some
well placed teasing. Start by kissing and licking around his penis, on the inner thighs, then on to his
testicles, and then slowly up his shaft towards his glans (the head of his penis). Once you get there, use
your tongue to tickle him around the glans, and especially on his frenulum, the split on the underside of his
penis. At this point, he should be hard as a rock and super-sensitive to everything that you do. You can
continue teasing if you like, but we don’t recommend teasing too long, as this can become frustrating for
the receiver.
One common problem women performing fellatio make is using only their mouth to repeatedly stroke his
penis. They continue doing this until either it works, or they get a sore jaw and neck. A good “blow job”
should not be too repetitive, should include stroking using a hand and the exploration of his testicles, thighs
and (if you and he like) the anal region. By mixing up your style, you allow your muscles to relax, you can
avoid getting a sore neck and you can improve your performance.
How you mix it up should depend on what your partner’s likes. Although there is a lot to say about fellatio
that can get the job done in a matter of minutes, it is the longer ones that usually result in more intense
orgasms, and coincidently are remembered. (Click here to read about stroking techniques).
It is a good idea to keep an eye on his scrotum (his testicle “sack”), as it is usually a good indicator of how
close he is to coming. As a guy gets closer to climax, the skin on his scrotum tightens and pulls his testicles
towards his body to warm them up. You can let this happen on its own, or help out by stimulating his
testicles with a hand, tongue, or mouth.
More Advanced
Once you get the basics, and are comfortable and experienced with them, there are a lot of options to
increase the pleasure. One option is using lubricants on his shaft. This will allow you to stroke faster
without causing irritation. There are a wide variety of products that can be used,this includes: flavored
lubricants, lubricants that heat up when blown on or rubbed, water based, oil based and many others. On
this note, using whipped cream, spreads, and other food can also be incorporated to make the “blow job”
more erotic.
Sex toys can add more stimulation. Whether it is a regular vibrator, a vibrating cock ring, or an oral
simulator, these toys can greatly intensify the stimulation. These days, there is virtually a sex toy for
everything and everyone, so check out our toy store to find a product that is perfect for you.
If your man likes to experiment, we recommend stimulating his prostate gland with your finger or an anal
toy to take his orgasms to a whole new world of pleasure. For more information on this, please refer to the
anal play article.
Another more difficult to master skill is deep throating. In this, the performer takes the entire penis into the
mouth and down the throat - hence the name. In many cases, the sensation is so intense that climax in men
comes quickly. As enjoyable as this may be, it takes time to learn to control your gag reflex. You can train
your gag reflex by trying to take as much of the penis as you can when performing fellatio. Your partner
should restrain from any thrusting during this exercise! With time, you will be able to go deeper and
deeper, until finally you’ll be able to take the whole thing.
Ejaculation
Most men find it very erotic to have a partner swallow their semen, but if you really don’t feel comfortable
with it, don’t do it. Options include: catching it in your mouth, then spitting it out; using a tissue to catch it;
or, just letting it shoot and clean up the mess afterwards. To find out more about semen, we suggest reading
our article on male ejaculation.
Many women stop performing fellatio right after their man ejaculates. Instead, you should continue to
gently stimulate orally or with your hand for a minute or two longer. After a climax, the penis becomes
much more sensitive, so try giving it to him a little longer. Be careful though, some men find this after-play
too intense to handle.
Warnings and Suggestions
Very few men like the feeling of teeth on their penis. Teeth can cause discomfort, cuts, and scratches to the
skin if you are not careful. This is easily avoided by tucking your lips around your teeth before you take the
penis in your mouth.
The use of condoms is highly recommended in the practice of safer sex. If you are not sure of your
partner’s sexual history, it is strongly advised that you use a condom while performing any sexual act. If
you want something a little more interesting try using a flavored condom and by all means stay away from
the lubricated variety (the lubricants used on condoms taste horrible). A good suggestion for anyone using a
condom during fellatio is to buy a flavored lubricant to turn a normal latex condom into a tasty condom.
The normal rubbery taste of a regular condom can be all but eliminated by unrolling, washing (with mild
soap and water), rinsing, drying and re-rolling (if for later use).

By:
Maitreyanto

Art of Fellatio

2007-11-24T22:17:00.000-08:00

Fine Art of Fellatio

Oh, now where to begin with this one. I can’t say that I’ve ever met a man who didn’t like to
have his cock sucked on. As a matter of fact that would probably rate as the biggest turn on if
men had to pick just one aspect of sex as their favorite. At least that’s my take on the subject.
Performing fellatio on your partner can be the biggest turn on there is. I know that when I’m
in the mood for sucking cock that I thoroughly enjoy it. Times like that it isn’t important if my
partner reciprocates or not, because I’m lost in making him feel good. At other times it is a nice
prelude to intercourse when you exchange oral sex with your partner. When I suck on my
partner’s penis we’ve found that he can usually last a lot longer when it comes to the actual
intercourse, which is really awesome!
First off, you need to take a look at your partner’s penis. One of the first things you will
notice is whether or not he is circumcised. This may make for subtle differences when you are
sucking on your partner’s penis, as when they are uncircumcised the handling of the penis is a
little bit different. Penis’s come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Unless you a size queen the
length and girth of your partner’s cock should not be an issue. The average male penis size is in
the five to six inch range when erect and the average girth when erect is about five inches.
Run your fingers up and down the length of his cock as you examine it. You will find that he
doesn’t remain soft for very long. Feel the texture of the skin that covers the ball sac. You will
also notice that at different times the ball sac can become quite heavy and the skin over it
quite tight. At other times it will be very loose and feel much lighter.
Tease your partner. Lick his balls and the insides of his thighs but stay away from actually
touching his cock. Make him squirm a little first. When you first start out take your time and
use slow deliberate strokes and cover the whole length of his cock. In my experience sucking on
my partners cock isn’t enough to get him off, there also needs to be plenty of hand action on his
cock as well as on his balls. The two work very well together. Lubrication is a good idea. It
wouldn’t be a good thing to all of a sudden have your hand stuck to your partners cock because
there’s no lubrication. The best lubrication I’ve found comes just from using your saliva. Instead
of swallowing all the saliva just let it dribble down onto your hand and his cock. It keeps
everything fairly well lubricated.
Positioning
There are many positions from which you can give your partner fellatio. I’m going to
list some of the ones that have worked well for my partner and myself. There is no right
or wrong way to position yourself, your best bet is to experiment with different
positions and see what works best for you and your partner. Experimentation is half the
fun.
Kneeling – in this situation have your partner either stand or perhaps sit on the edge of
the bed or couch or chair (whatever works for you) and then you kneel between his feet
and give the fellatio from that angle. One drawback to this is that I find that my knees
really can’t take this position for extended periods of time.
69 – this is always a favorite for most people. You can give and receive in this position;
you just have to remember to concentrate on what you’re doing for your partner. This
can sometimes be a very difficult task to say the least. I prefer to be on top so that I
have a little more control of my partner’s penis and what I’m trying to do with it.
Side by side – you can lay down alongside your partner in either direction. Have your
partner lay partially on his side so that you can reach his penis as well as his balls.
Over top – by over top I mean have your partner lay down on the bed flat on his back,
you kneel beside him on either the right or the left side and then put your head down
over his penis and pubic area from that angle.
Tongue Techniques
This portion of the tutorial will deal with some of the various techniques that you can
use to bring your partner great pleasure and have him moaning for more. Trust me, they
always want more!
To start you might want to just lick your partner’s penis all over, from top to bottom
feeling the texture of it, supplying moisture to the area. Just little licks here and there.
Don’t forget the balls, they play a very important part in the overall stimulation of your
partner. They are definitely part of the package and should have lots of attention
lavished on them.
Now you can move on to another technique that works rather well. Take your
partner’s penis in your mouth and close down your lips around the head of the penis.
Don’t take too much into your mouth at this time. Then take your tongue and swirl it over
the tip of his penis. You can apply a little bit of pressure with your mouth and release
while you are doing this. It’s also been said that if you hum while sucking on your
partner’s penis that the vibration will add to the stimulation.
By sliding your mouth back from the previous technique you can then suckle the tip of
his penis and use varying amounts of pressure. Be sure to pay attention to your partner’s
reaction. The object isn’t to cause your partner any pain, unless of course they are into
it, which is a completely different tutorial. You can add a bit of variety to this technique
by making a point of your tongue and running it around the edge of the penis where the
shaft meets the head. This area is fairly sensitive in most men and is sure to get a
reaction.
Pretend that your partner’s penis is a big lollipop or an all day sucker and then
proceed to lick it in the same fashion. This can be great fun to try. If you’d like to add
extra enjoyment use a small amount of flavored lube or even put whipped cream on his
penis to lick off or make a giant banana split out of him. It’s great fun to lick it all off
and make sure that you don’t miss any spots.
An interesting way to stimulate your partner’s penis is to hold it in your mouth
(similar to when you see people holding a rose in their teeth) and run your mouth and
tongue up and down the full length of it. You could do this for several strokes and then
dip down to lick the balls or at the top slide the tip of the penis into your mouth.
To Swallow or Not
To swallow or not? The answer to this question is based solely on personal preference
of both the partners. Some women love to swallow and others don’t. Some men love for
their partner to swallow their cum while others would prefer to see it spray all over the
place – mostly on their partner.
Taste is an issue when it comes to swallowing, many women simply don’t like the taste
of their partners cum. There appears to be some information that indicates that the
taste of semen can be influenced by your partners diet. You and your partner can
experiment with omitting various foods from your diet to see if they make a difference
to the taste of the semen. There are several foods that are reputed to sweeten the
taste of semen; they include parsley, papaya, pineapple juice, and bananas. Red meat has
the reputation of making the semen taste more acidic. Last but not least are coffee and
alcohol, both of which are reputed to cause a bitter taste in the semen.
Swallowing – most men tend to get off on their partner swallowing their cum. You’ll
want to be careful with this one so that you can do it in a manner that doesn’t make you
gag. There’s nothing more unromantic than your partner hearing you sound as though
you’re hacking up some huge fur ball. Trust me, this does happen and tends to kind of
interrupt the moment. My partner and I had this happen the other day as a matter of
fact and we both dissolved in laughter, it was very amusing. I’m just glad that there was
no videotape running to catch that live! Although I am sure that with a new partner this
might not be quite so amusing.
One thing to remember is that once your partner has cum and you’ve either swallowed
or not, don’t let go of his cock and think you’re done, keep sucking lightly on the tip of it
as it’s usually really sensitive after cumming. You can watch him squirm and moan quite
nicely.
That’s all the information I have for right now. If you'd like to contribute comments
or suggestions please send them to webmistress@very-koi.net and I will add them in at
the bottom of this page.

by:
Maitreyanto

Secrets of the G-Spot

2007-11-24T22:12:00.000-08:00

Secrets of the G-Spot:

What is the G-Spot?

Unlike men, women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, or GSpot
stimulation. Your partner may already climax fairly easily with clitoral
stimulation or during intercourse. However, there is an area for stimulation inside
her vagina called the G-Spot that you may not have found. Most people don't
know about it. The G-Spot is a bean shaped mass of nerve tissue located about
halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The GSpot
is the focal point of the female sexual arousal. The size and location of the
G-Spot will vary from woman to woman, but it's usually about the size of a
quarter, and lies two to three inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic
bone. You may be able to help her have added pleasure, experience new
sensations, and perhaps have a new type of climax.
Where can I find the G-Spot?
The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes women have a hard time finding it
and do not even believe they have one. Here is an easy method to finding it.
To explore this area, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the
bed, with a small pillow under her buttocks. Insert the length of your lubricated
fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be about two inches inside the
vagina. Press with one or two fingers against the front wall of her vagina.
Because it's surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall, you may want
to apply a little more pressure than usual.
When you stimulate the right spot, it will swell the way your penis does. Slide
your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right
place. She will be able to tell. When you find the sensitive spot, continue
stimulating it and you may find that it becomes firm and swells much like the
erectile tissue in your penis.
How do I stimulate the G-Spot?
Now that you've found the G-Spot, kneeling between your partner's legs you can
use the thumb of your other hand to gently stimulate her clitoris at the same time.
This combination should give her very intense sensations. She may climax in this
position, or you have the alternative of continuing in a different position.
If your partner turns over onto her back, you can stimulate her G-Spot most
easily if you lie between her legs. Then try inserting two fingers and rub against
the bottom of the vaginal opening, press upward with the tips of your fingers until
you are pressing her G-Spot. Move your fingers from back and side-to-side. You
can give her great pleasure by licking your partner’s clitoris and stimulating her GSpot
at the same time.
Another method is to have your partner lie on her belly with her legs spread apart
and her hips slightly elevated. Insert your fingers with your palm down, into her
vagina and explore the front wall. Have your partner move her pelvis to make
contact with your fingers. As you feel your partner become more aroused, slip the
other hand under her abdomen above her pubic hairs and slowly press.
What else is important about the g-spot?
Many women enjoy the "doggy" position during intercourse because it stimulates
the G-Spot. This is because a man's penis has better access to the front wall of
the vagina. Most women need firmer pressure to the front of the vagina, quick
rhythm, and a lot of friction to have a G-Spot orgasm.
Some women get a feeling of the need to urinate at first when the G-Spot is
stimulated. Your partner may need to empty her bladder before you begin
lovemaking.
It's possible that by stimulating the G-Spot your partner may ejaculate a small
amount of white or clear fluid when she climaxes.

By Maitreyanto
Bali

Gold Mining in Indonesia.

2007-11-24T22:08:00.000-08:00

Gold Mining in Indonesia.

Gold Mining in Indonesia is the fifth in a new series of in-depth country mining reports produced by GFMS in collaboration with local industry experts. The latest report offers readers an up-to-date and independent view of the mining industry in Indonesia, the largest island complex in the world, stretching for more than 5,000 kilometres east to west across an archipelago of 17,508 islands. The 40-page report describes both historic mine production (formal and informal) and future production levels expected in the country. It also lists the top domestic and international mining companies active in the region. Lastly, the report outlines the legal environment and tax regime and in particular explains the process of Mining Authorisation including Kuasa Pertambangan (a “KP” or “Mining Right”) and Contracts of Works. The report has been produced by London-based metals and mining consultants GFMS and locally based industry consultants,
PT Geomin International.
Main Highlights
Declining levels of mine production
Indonesian mine supply totalled an estimated 112 tonnes in 2004, ranking the country as the world’s eighth largest producer. At its peak in 2001, production exceeded 180 tonnes and in that year displaced China as the world’s fourth biggest producer. The dramatic 70 tonne decline in output implied from the statistics above was firstly, and most importantly, a result of last year’s slump in production at Grasberg, the country’s and the world’s biggest gold producing mine. A pit wall failure at the end of 2003 restricted access to high-grade areas of the open pit and output was essentially halved at the 100 tonne per annum mine. Secondly, investment levels over the last five years have been in sharp decline - since 1998 only three new mines have opened (Newmont’s Batu Hijau mine and Newcrest’s Gosowong and Toguraci) – and during the same period no less than five operating mines have closed due to the exhaustion of reserves.
Potential for new discoveries is significant
The country’s shrinking population of gold mines is not, however, a reflection of its resource potential. Indeed, Indonesia has some of the best geological prospectivitiy in the world and offers great potential for future exploration and development work. In a recent survey Indonesia’s potential mineral index, in terms of geological prospectivity, was equal to that of Russia, Peru, Chile and Nevada.
Concerning the noted slump in investment levels into the country, the decline in the gold price itself no doubt played an important role. In nominal terms, prices suffered five successive years of decline before bottoming out at $255.95/oz in April 2001. Nevertheless, the sheer scale of the exodus from the country suggests that there were other contributory factors.

By:
Maitreyanto
www.raupmas.com

Top 10 Masturbation Tips from Women

2007-11-24T22:06:00.000-08:00

Top 10 Masturbation Tips from Women

Playstation pleasure

For this, you need a Playstation, a vibrating controller and a Metal Gear Solid CD. Use the
vibration test in the option menu of the game. Insert the edge of the controller to your pussy or
clit, test the vibration and enjoy!
Pool Party
If you have a pool or hot tub, get in front of one of the jets or blowers and spread your legs as far
as you can. Get kinda far from it and let it hit your clit and slowly begin to go closer to the jet. The
closer you get the more intense the stimulation. You cum pretty quickly so I normally do it a few
times. It feels so great. I usually stay in front of mine when the whole time I am in my pool
Shower Head
When you take a bath , sit down and let the water fill until your tummy. Then unscrew the shower
head, so that you have a very strong stream of water directed toward your clit. Open your legs
and enjoy. Sometimes I cum this way for 2 minutes.
Rub-a-dub-dub
Lie in an empty bathtub. Spread your legs wide and turn on the faucet to a lukewarm, yet on the
colder side temperature. Scoot down to a position where the constant flow of the water is on your
clit. Position your arms so your elbows are holding you up, and I like to keep my hands wedged
under my butt (this adds more pressure I think). As you start getting hotter and hotter, change the
temperature to more of a hot one, and enjoy! Gives great orgasms almost every time! I don't
recommend filling the bathtub up first, this gives too much water and the hot water runs out
quickly leaving you with freezing cold left which numbs your clit.
The pussy pet
Using enough lube to create a smooth hand-to-pussy connection. Gently pat your clit with your
hand flat. Occasionally, hold your hand down, creating pressure and then go back to patting.
Eventually, just press and release, not pulling the hand all the way off.
The shovel
Using a dildo or other object, pretend your toy is a shovel and you are softly digging. With a
forward, gliding motion, slide the toy down to your clit, across it and then upward, removing it from
your body completely. Repeat over and over and over until you drive yourself crazy
The sandwich
Hold your clit from its base between two fingers with one hand while stroking it with your other
hand (either one finger or more rubbing). The pressure of the stroke is up to you, of course, but
continue to maintain the sandwich effect while you run.
Oral hygiene
Take an electric toothbrush (preferably one with varying speeds) and turn it on, moving it around
your inner thigh until you get nice and wet. Without a little lubrication, this can be kind of
uncomfortable. Then bring it right on top of your clit, first to one side, then the other. Usually one
side of your clitty is more sensitive than the other. If you REALLY want to drive yourself wild,
leave the toothbrush on that side for most of the time. It really feels divine.
Tap, tap, tap
I like to tap my clit rapidly. Faster and faster and faster. It gets me hot, wet, and when I reach the
edge, I rub it hard. Always works. Always.
Flex, relax, flex, relax
Take your index and middle finger and place them on your clit. Harden the muscles in your legs
as much as you can and imagine your hips are being pushed back. Now take the two fingers on
your clit and move them back and forth, while still pressing on your clit. Then once you get the
hang of it tighten and untighten your legs to give added effect, but not too much. This usually
sends me into an orgasm. It's hard to keep this up after the orgasm, but you can place your
fingers in a spot slightly above or below your clit to do this again many times.

By,:
Maitreyanto

Gee Spot

2007-11-24T22:04:00.000-08:00

G Spot

Where is the G Spot?

If your partner is lying on her back, then her Grafenberg Area, commonly known as the G Spot, is located
roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate orgasms come from a woman having
her G Spot stimulated. This area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth)
as the rest of her vagina, and when aroused feels spongy. A G Spot orgasm is often associated with the
mystical legend of female ejaculation and 15-30 minutes of a euphoric sensation where she is in complete
bliss... Don't expect much from her during this time, she is in heaven.
G Spot Technique
With your fingers approximately two to three inches in, move your fingers in even circles all around the
inside of the vagina. It generally feels best if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of
the vaginal walls while fingering. You may wish to give a LITTLE extra pressure towards her belly as long
as you don't break the steady rotational rhythm. Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the
(usually slightly ridged) area of the vagina just behind the pubic bone and exert pressure towards her belly
(upwards). This is direct G Spot stimulation, and it usually feels best if the fingers are subtly moving. You
can move your fingers in small, slow circles, or point your fingers more sharply and rock them back and
forth.
An advanced and very successful technique is a combination of the two. Trace the inside of her vagina with
your finger(s), while moving in and out. Make sure that your fingertip always hits the g spot on each
rotation. Finding a nice rhythm is critical in this technique, and when you get it right, she’ll be asking you
how you learned that!
Stimulating G Spot During Intercourse
This topic is covered in greater detail in the vaginal intercourse article in the Intercourse section, but keep
in mind the angle you position yourself during intercourse. Being able to stimulate the G Spot during
intercourse will definitely increase the likelihood of your partner reaching orgasm through intercourse.
Toys
Sexual toys are a great way to enhance your sexual experiences. They can vibrate, stay hard, and best of all
they don’t get tired. There is no better way to learn how to experience vaginal orgasms then by using a
vibrator to help you figure out how to use your body better. If there is a way to stimulate it, there is a sex
toy to automate the process and to no surprise this holds true when referring to the G Spot. Click here to
browse a selection of vibrators with curves to connect right where it counts.

author
Maitreyanto